• Give Someone a Compliment when you Stub your Toe

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    What’s your first reaction when you stub your toe? Do you yell? Do you scream? Do you blame someone?

    Ouch
    Dan Ariely, a professor of psychology and behavioural economics at Duke University wrote a whole chapter on “long term effects of short term emotions in his latest book The Upside of Irrationality (affiliate link). The gist of it is that when we make decisions while in an emotional state, the emotions will pass but the decisions we make can stay with us and set our behavioural patterns for a long time.

    Had a Bad Day at Work?

    Imagine that you have a really bad day at work. Your boss dumps all of his problems on you, your co-workers leaves on vacation and you are responsible for picking up his mess and you spilled your coffee all over your desk. After your long commute home, you are greeted by your kids fighting with each other, as kids do. Your reaction is to yell at them and unintentionally, take out some of your frustrations. Although this is a common reaction, what you are doing is setting a behavioural pattern to scream at your kids if they are not behaving.

    Had a Good Day at Work?

    On the other hand, you may have a great day at work, you get that promotion that you’ve been working toward and to top it off, your favourite sports team just clinched a playoff spot. When you get home to find your kids fighting, you deal with them calmly and set the behavioural pattern of not yelling when your kids are misbehaving.

    Blame Someone, Anyone!

    When I was a kid and would fall down, people told me to “make bad” to the floor, which would cheer me up. As I grew up, whenever I got hurt, my immediate reaction was to blame someone, usually the closest person to me. I eventually caught my behaviour and worked hard to change the pattern but it wasn’t easy.

    Rewards don’t Work Like That!

    I had a similar experience with my study habits. I would reward myself for certain amounts of studying for school. Sometimes, I would reward myself a little early because I deserved it, which led to me expecting the reward earlier the next time and not being able to study properly without it.

    Predictably Irrational

    It’s irrational but it’s how we work. The upside is that if we are conscious about this and work at it, we can condition ourselves to be better people.

    So the next time you stub your toe, give someone a compliment. You never know what it will do to your character down the line.

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    I am a typical person more or less that has always tried to get away with doing the absolute minimum to get by. In school, I did my assignments last minute, I barely passes some of my tests, I crammed for everything and didn't care about retaining any information. I always wanted to be successful and get lucky but my problem was that I thought that luck and chance were synonymous. One day, all that changed when i found out that there was more to "Luck". I learned that it was possible to make your own luck and that people that were "lucky", all had very similar characteristics. I made a conscious decision to become one of those lucky people and the world started to open up. It didn't happen overnight and I'm still not there yet but at least I know what to look for and what to do. Recognizing the opportunities to get lucky is only the beginning of the battle. Now I have to train myself to jump on every opportunity and one day be truly "lucky".

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    • http://twitter.com/MomsCashBlog Moms Cash Blog

      Great post I love this kind of stuff, behavioral science has always been of interest to me. It is great to know that some of our behavior can be changed by us and make us a better human being. I think the brain,mind is just a fascinating thing to study! Great post with interesting material.  Thanks!   jj

    • http://temphunting.com Amir "Flid2" Lehrer

      I'm glad you liked the post.  If you like this kind of stuff, you should read Dan Ariely's 2 books http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb… and his blog http://danariely.com/.

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